Cozy is not a style of decor so much as a set of conditions, and most of those conditions can be checked from the doorway before you sit down at the table.
A dark room with candles and velvet does the same trick a good living room does at seven in the evening: it lowers the volume on everything except the person across from you. That is the whole product. So rather than rank the region’s restaurants, which is a list that goes stale by spring, I have sorted the ones worth a cold night out by where they are, along with the honest list of what a dark room costs you. Haha.
WHAT MAKES A ROOM READ AS COZY IS MOSTLY THE LIGHT
Three things do almost all of the work, and none of them is a candle.
- Low light with a warm temperature. Not dim, warm. A room at full brightness with the color turned down still reads like a cafeteria.
- Soft and uneven surfaces. Brick, dark wood, velvet, plaster. Hard flat walls bounce sound, and a room that echoes cannot be intimate however it is lit.
- A room small enough to fill. A half empty dining room is the loneliest place in the region.
The third one is what people get wrong, and it is why a huge restaurant with beautiful lighting can still feel like an airport at the wrong hour.
THE ONES YOU CAN WALK TO
In Oak Park, Butterscotch Den is the loudest idea on this list and it works: moody, seasonal drinks, live jazz, and steaks you grill yourself at the table. Grilling your own dinner is either the best thing that happens all month or a chore you paid for, and you know which one you are. In Midtown, Star Lounge sits in a historic building with brick, velvet and original light fixtures, which is cozy built rather than decorated. Downtown, Il Fornaio is the big Italian room of the group, and it dresses all the way up in December.
Then Old Sacramento, where The Firehouse is famous for the patio and underrated for the inside. The building was a firehouse, the room has brick walls and original woodwork, and the wine list is long enough to be a decision of its own. On a cold night the patio is not the point. The room is.
THE ONES WHERE THE DRIVE IS PART OF THE EVENING
Half of these are worth the drive because the drive is doing something. Twenty minutes of dark road and a slower conversation on the way back is a different night than walking four blocks.
Hawks in Granite Bay is the special occasion room: velvet, dim light, white tablecloths, a menu built on what is in season. In Winters, Preserve is farm to table with twinkling lights and a rustic, refined room. In Placerville, Smith Flat House puts you in a stone lined cellar that was once a gold mine. Restaurant Josephine in Auburn is French cooking in a historic building, using ingredients from the owners’ own farm.
The suburban ones are the ones people forget. Bacchus House in Folsom is a bistro whose seasonal decor goes well past tasteful and is more fun for it. South Fork Grille in El Dorado Hills has booths, dark wood, steaks and seafood. Rose Park Bistro in Roseville is dark wallpaper and velvet, with California cooking that leans Mediterranean. Boulevard Bistro in Elk Grove has a fireplace and a room that is homely and refined at once. And The Mustard Seed in Davis, with its raised wooden ceiling and brick fireplace, is the closest thing here to eating inside a mountain cabin, with a much better menu than that suggests.
THE COMPARISON I REACH FOR, AND WHERE IT STOPS WORKING
The closest ordinary thing I can think of is setting a table at home when you want an evening to go well. You turn the overhead light off, you clear the counter, you put something on, and the room does most of the work before anybody says a word.
That gets the instinct and then hands you a less pleasant fact. At home you control the guest list and the volume. In a restaurant the other tables are in the room with you, and they are not following your plan. Which is why the best lighting in the region cannot save a full, loud room. The atmosphere is not the restaurant’s, it is the restaurant plus whoever else showed up.
WHAT A DARK ROOM ACTUALLY COSTS YOU
- You cannot really see the food. Candlelight is kind to a room and unkind to a plate. If the kitchen is the reason you came, ask for a table with light on it.
- December is the worst month to decide late. The rooms that dress up for the holidays are the rooms everybody wants in the same three weeks.
- Somebody is driving. A foothill dinner is a two part evening, and one of you is having water with it.
- The cloth napkin rooms cost more. A tasting menu evening is not the same budget as a neighborhood table, and it is not automatically a better night.
- Menus and hours move. Check the restaurant’s own page before you book, not a list on the internet, including this one.
HOW I WOULD PICK ONE, IN FOUR QUESTIONS
Where are you coming from, and do you want the trip home to be four blocks or forty minutes? How much talking do you want to do, because a loud room is a different evening from a quiet one. What do you want to eat, since a tasting menu, a plate you grill yourself and a plate of pasta are three different moods. And who is paying, because that changes the list more than any review does.
Answer those four and the restaurant picks itself. If you are still deciding where to live, they work on a town too: what you can walk to, how far you are from the people you see most, and whether the places you like are five minutes away or a planned evening. The neighborhood pages cover what each part of the region is actually like, and how the buying process runs covers the rest. A restaurant is a good first date with a town, not a reason to commit to one.
Question for you: when you picture a good night out, is it a room you can walk to, or a drive with the radio off for the last ten minutes?
Adapted from Cozy Restaurants for a Holiday Date, originally published by Windermere Signature Properties at windermerecalocal.com.
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